Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

If you don’t respect yourself, how are you going to respect those around you? Your negative self talk is imprinting on those you care most about, causing them to feel inadequate and worthless. Stop trying to make up for your perceived inadequacy established by those in your past. They don’t define who you are. That’s your job. So create a positive and good definition of yourself and live to it. Walk your own talk!

Additional Insight:

Swords represent Strength & Weakness, Struggle & Endurance, Animosity & Respect.

You project how you feel, even how you feel about yourself. It can appear to others as if that projection is what you think of them. Don’t expect others to be able to read your thoughts or intentions. Even the best psychics have clouded vision when it comes to those they love or care about. Even if that’s not what you mean, could be that’s what they see when you look at them or speak to them. 

What others have said to you in the past is only true and real if you take their words to heart. Why accept the hateful negative descriptions about you from someone who obviously didn’t respect you? That doesn’t even make sense.

Someone close to you has shutdown because they can’t take on any more negativity. Especially from your own projection. Show some compassion for yourself and stop using them as a reflection. It’s not their baggage to carry for you. 

And if the one you’re with is the one trying to define you in a negative way, then maybe it’s time to address the problem and confront them. If they’re not willing to work with you to resolve the issue, then it might be time to move on. Clean the mirror, or buy a new one for a better and more clear impression of yourself.

You decide what reflections you hold in your life. If you want respect, you need to give it. If you want positive consideration, than look in the mirror with compassion and love. You’ll reflect that energy not only to yourself, but to those you love and care about too.

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

Look within for the answers. Be calm, cool and collected. You’ll be able to see what’s really going on from both a higher perspective and under the surface. Even though others are being deceitful and trying to take advantage of your situation; you don’t have to go down into the sewer with them. Don’t take the bait and remain compassionate, clear and focused for your own good.

Additional Insight:

When you show compassion instead of taking the bait to start a fight, you heal your inner-self. You strengthen your own position and provide energy that allows you to rise above the greed, ego and arrogance.

Others may think they’re fooling you. But in doing so they are also missing out on the opportunity to share the little moments in their life with you. That may not seem like much right now. But remember, snowballs roll down hill and become larger before they crash at the bottom.

It may take a little time to realize how much they missed out on. How much they sacrificed of themselves to be deceitful. But when you’re walking up the mountain and they’re still struggling to cross the bridge at the foothills below, they’ll wish they did things differently.

You don’t have to give back what they’re dishing out. Simply protect your assets. Hold compassion and love for yourself and those you care about. You will be able to see through their deceit and negative actions. And you will accomplish what you need to. Remember, don’t take the bait. Walk away, or say thanks and goodbye. But don’t get into the argument.

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

Your peace offering may not be accepted, but if you make it you might be surprised. Don’t let pride stand in the way of admitting you’re partly to blame. But remember there are two sides of the story and the other side has some accountability too.

Additional Insight:

I’ve said before that everyone handles stress and anxiety in different ways. But everyone needs a release. In general people need connections, they need someone to talk to. When communication avenues are closed or blocked, that stress can be compounded. What seems like a little thing to you, could be the last straw to someone else who already has 10 tons on their shoulders.

Yes they are responsible for their own feelings and how they choose to react. But don’t be surprised when they lash out. It maybe all they have left when they can’t take anymore.

Make an attempt to talk to them and resolve the issue. Tell them how you feel and what part of the issue you feel is your responsibility. Don’t place blame, don’t start any sentence with “You did” or “You didn’t”. Rather take control of your own emotions and actions through “I felt like”.

Life isn’t easy. It has ups and downs. How you handle the downs will be the biggest indicator of how you’ll move into the future. If you want to keep your partnership, you’re going to have to admit that some of the blame really is on your shoulders. And all the responsibility for you emotions and how you feel resides with you.

The key to any successful partnership, no matter what kind of relationship it may be, is Respect. Find out if you really are giving that to your partner. Be honest with yourself and truly look within to determine if you’re only telling yourself you are, or not. Correct those areas you don’t feel stand up to your own standard and make your peace offering. Let your weekend begin with compassion and kindness.

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

While you have so many things up in the air to pay attention to, don’t forget what’s already on your table. The things you disregard maybe the very things you want most in your life. There’s a difference between important and imperative. But sometimes those imperative items stack up so high that you can’t see the magik you’ve already created in front of you. Give respect to what you already have, and you won’t lose them.

Additional Insight:

Everything deserves respect. Especially those things you hold near and dear to your heart. Be they a special tool, a favorite necklace, a person or people in your life, respect them and they’ll never leave you.

Respect is the biggest thing that holds people together. Respecting their ideas, their wishes, their opinions and their value to you in your life is the key to maintaining a long term relationship.

Constant disrespect breeds disdain, anger and hurt feelings. Remember that your actions speak much louder than your words. If you’re not putting for the effort to show your respect, you will lose what you love most.

Don’t leave the ceremonial knife out in the rain to become rusted. Don’t scatter the cards on your desk and leave them unprotected to get lost or damaged. Clean the favorite necklace from time to time and examine it for damage. When you’re asked for support or help from a loved one, don’t huff or puff, don’t ignore it, be there for them. Even if it’s hard. Especially if they’ve been there for you!

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

Don’t ask others about what you should do. Look into your own crystal ball and define you’re own future. No one has your best interests to heart more than you do. Others will only tell you what they “want” you to do, which may not be what you “need” to do!

Additional Insight:

It’s your life, you need to be the one who leads it. You’re the one who will live with the consequences, good, bad or indifferent. Don’t leave it up to someone else to make your choices when they have no responsibility for what happens to you.

Take some time to sit quietly, close your eyes and go within to find the answer that is best for you. Align yourself with the higher divine force in your life and trust the message you receive.

Don’t look for conformation for what you want to do. Be open. Be honest. And look for guidance toward what you need to do. It might even be something you haven’t even thought about.

When you believe you have the answer, talk it over with your partner or family. But don’t listen to the nay-sayer. Listen to those who are supportive and want to help you progress your ideas, help you achieve your goals and build you up when you’re feeling put down or defeated.

Those are the people who are really standing by your side. Even when you take a different path, if they’re still there cheering you on, they’re the ones who have your best interest to heart and love you. Thank them for their help, consider their ideas and then walk your path forward. Only you can fit in your own skin, so only you can live your life.

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

Play with your dreams in reality and you’ll give them the energy to manifest. Keep them in the bubble and you’ll never be able to fill your cups with abundance. Dreams take physical work and the implementation of steps to attain them. Get to work and stop listening to the nagging inner voice that says you can’t do this. Release the fear that holds your dream inside the protective ball and let the bubble fly!

Additional Insight:

When things are upside down, people automatically assume they’re bad or negative. Stop the negative thinking and start looking at things from a different perspective!

It’s ok to collect scrappings that inspire your dream. As long as you’re doing something in the physical world to make them a reality. Don’t let the difficult steps hold you back. Ask for help, apply for the loan, sign up for the class, talk to the broker or agent and find out what you can do. Even if the answer is no, or not now, you’ve torn down the barrier and put energy into action.

Cups represent the essence of Emotions, Happiness, and Abundance. Your emotions create the energy around you. If you want to lift your cup in celebration, then you need to work on what makes you happy. When you do, you combine your physical and spiritual energy into a creative force that will move you forward toward abundance. Stop thinking about how hard or tough things are going to be and start moving your energy into reality!

And remember that just because that one person said no, doesn’t mean the next one will. Or the next. Or the next. Keep going, keep doing what you’re doing and eventually you will build a snowball that can’t be stopped and someone will say yes.

Dreams are nothing if you let them sit in the bubble. You must put the work and effort into lifting them up where they can float on the breeze. When you’re ready and the foundation is in place, the bubble will pop and fly on its own. So don’t give up! Don’t listen to they nay-sayers, don’t listen to the fear. stop worrying about the what if’s that may never happen. Take the chance and step forward off the cliff. You may just find that you can fly and were worried about nothing!

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You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.