Don’t take your frustrations out on each other. Don’t turn your back on those you care for and need the most. You will win the day by supporting each other and working as a team. Being at odds only allows those trying to put a wedge between you to win. As a team you can use your creative wisdom to innovate, adapt and overcome anything.
When challenges arise is exactly when you should be reaching for each other. Not pushing the best asset you have, away from you. No things aren’t perfect, but that’s exactly why you need your partner to be there with you. You can share compassion, support and find strength in your partnership to endure and overcome. The cup isn’t empty, when it has your friendship to fill it up.
Supporting each other helps you bounce ideas off each other. To give each other a pep talk and build each other up. Making each other feel a little more secure through “We’ll get through this”, will help you do just that. It will lift your spirit and allow you to move your thoughts into the higher realm of Divine Creation. From here, you can tap into the endless energy of creation and imagine new ideas, visualize unexpected solutions and discover solutions that will help you overcome the struggles.
Turning your back on each other only makes it harder and adds to the struggles that really aren’t the fault of your partner. Even if they tried a solution and it failed, at least they tried. Learn from the situations both past and present and you’ll be able to take another step closer to success when you apply what you learned next time.
Remember, you catch more bees with honey, than with vinegar. Share your sweetness with each other. A pat on the back, a supportive rub of the shoulder. A gentle hug if it’s appropriate. All these gestures of compassion and kindness will help everyone fight the stress and anxiety for one more day. You can do this. You really can. Especially if you do it together.
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