If you’re going to sit in judgement of others, make sure you have ALL the facts. Managing by rumor allows you to be played by those who want to undermine you and those they’re talking about. Rumor is rarely accurate and you could be unjustly sentencing someone for something they never did. Be very careful who you listen to today. In your circle, in the news and especially at school or the work place!

Additional Insight:

Sitting in judgement carries with it a huge measure of accountability and karma. If you’re going to take on that role, you better be sure you’re weighing the scales of justice in a balanced and fair manner. The result may not only tilt for the one you’re passing judgement upon, but on you as well.

We make judgements every day and in nearly every situation we come across throughout our day. You judge who your friends are, who you can trust and who you can’t. It’s not a bad thing to judge situations or those around you. It’s part of nature and definitely part of human nature. The negativity comes when you use your judgement unfairly and without all the facts.

Rumors are never good things to use or hold over someone. Judgement requires proof, facts and that takes time to find the answers. In some situations however, rumors can be a note to take caution and discover if there is any truth to the matter.

If you hear something about someone and feel you’re in a position to judge the situation, then start at the source. Have the decency and the guts to ask the person face to face that the rumor is about and find the truth. Listen to their story and then speak to anyone else they bring up in their tale. Ask for their story. But be cautious. If you’re in a position of authority, your investigation could be seen as being a nosy bizzy body who needs to keep their intrusions to themselves.  Make sure you have the authority to sit in judgement.

At the very least don’t be part of the problem who spreads false rumors or hateful stories. Don’t be part of the bullying crowd. It’s not fair to those who are being attacked by the rumor, especially when you find out it isn’t true. Or worse that the situation was orchestrated by someone trying to destroy someone or a group or a situation.

Be cautious of your own actions and don’t go along with the crowd. If you want to be seen as the leader, as the person others can trust or count on, then you must step up and take on that role with just cause, responsibility and confidence. Be better than those who don’t think for themselves. Be the respected authority you dream of becoming.

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

Be careful with whom you commiserate with today. The fears of others are not yours to own. So don’t take them on. Don’t take on their anxiety and allow their short sighted views to control your emotions. You will only make things worse than they really are. Stay within your own mind and focus on your own table. It’s not as bare as you’re making it out to be.

Additional Insight:

Cups are the essence of Emotions, Happiness, and Abundance. You can’t fill them when they are upside down and closed off from receiving the sustenance you want the most. Others can’t make you happy or control your emotions. They can’t give you abundance of anything, be it peace, security or finances. Only you control these things within your Mind, Body and Spirit.

Many people are stressed and worried as they face uncertainty that’s out of their control. Those who planned for this event will make it through with little effort or worry. Those who didn’t plan, simply need to take ownership of their own situation and manage what they have. And not allowing the over sensitive, exaggerated assumptions of others to pull them into drama that doesn’t even exist.

Call those you need to and tell them you’re going to be late. They will understand and are willing to work with you through troubled times. Don’t leave things the way they are and ignore them because you’re unsure. It’s ok not to know. Really. You can take control of your life and show responsibility even though others around you are not doing so. By being accountable, you will relieve a great deal of worry and stress freeing your shoulders for the burdens that are more important.

It’s only a minor set back. Stay focused within your Mind, give yourself time to engage your body and work from a place of spirit. You’ll rise above and get through the current dilemmas. And you will get through this by working from a place of balance. Ease your mind, work your body and entertain your spirit. Things will change next week.

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

Don’t take your frustrations out on each other. Don’t turn your back on those you care for and need the most. You will win the day by supporting each other and working as a team. Being at odds only allows those trying to put a wedge between you to win. As a team you can use your creative wisdom to innovate, adapt and overcome anything.

Additional Insight:

When challenges arise is exactly when you should be reaching for each other. Not pushing the best asset you have, away from you. No things aren’t perfect, but that’s exactly why you need your partner to be there with you. You can share compassion, support and find strength in your partnership to endure and overcome. The cup isn’t empty, when it has your friendship to fill it up. 

Supporting each other helps you bounce ideas off each other. To give each other a pep talk and build each other up. Making each other feel a little more secure through “We’ll get through this”, will help you do just that. It will lift your spirit and allow you to move your thoughts into the higher realm of Divine Creation. From here, you can tap into the endless energy of creation and imagine new ideas, visualize unexpected solutions and discover solutions that will help you overcome the struggles.

Turning your back on each other only makes it harder and adds to the struggles that really aren’t the fault of your partner. Even if they tried a solution and it failed, at least they tried. Learn from the situations both past and present and you’ll be able to take another step closer to success when you apply what you learned next time.

Remember, you catch more bees with honey, than with vinegar. Share your sweetness with each other. A pat on the back, a supportive rub of the shoulder. A gentle hug if it’s appropriate. All these gestures of compassion and kindness will help everyone fight the stress and anxiety for one more day. You can do this. You really can. Especially if you do it together.

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

You’re not the expert yet, you still have some learning to do. You can share your knowledge and lead the way, but don’t let it go to your head. Humility will serve you well today, so don’t forget to give credit where credit is due. And don’t be afraid to say “I don’t know, but I can find out”. Your honesty will be refreshing and admired.

Additional Insight:

You’re never too old or too lofty to learn. No one knows it all. In fact those who are the “experts” know there is much more they don’t know and have yet to discover.

The more you know, the more you realize you don’t know and the more questions you have. So there’s no reason to be arrogant or lofty or to look down on others who are new to their path of understanding and knowledge. You’re also not the only one who knows things. So be open to learning from others. Even from those who are just beginning their search for knowledge and understanding.

Being humble allows you to share what you know, without feeling a need to “prove” what you know. It means not feeling as though you need to impress others, because you already know who you are and what you know.

One of my most favorite sayings is “a teacher doesn’t teach, until the student is ready to ask the question”. Wait until your asked and then share your knowledge. But if you’re asked and you don’t know the answer, don’t try to bluff your way through it. Be honest, share what you do know about the topic, but admit what you don’t know. And make sure you add where you would go to find the answer and learn more about the subject.

Sometimes showing that you’re resourceful and able to enhance what you already know goes much farther to impressing and influencing people. It can also show a belief in yourself, a confidence that allows you to be an asset, not simply a body that fills a seat.

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

Stop feeding the conflict within yourself and find your inner compassion. Packing your day with lots of little things to keep you from thinking about you isn’t helping. It’s running away from the real issue. You’re so busy doing everything for everyone else, that you’re not loving yourself enough to see what you really need. Stop it. Look in the mirror and tell yourself I Love You and You do deserve better.

Additional Insight:

When we constantly put everything we have on the line, our emotions are going to get stepped on. It’s not the fault of others who stumble over the raw nerves we put out there. Stop looking to blame or point the fingers at those who crossed the line. Look at how you yourself are treating you.

Constantly taking on new things for others at our own expense is not noble. It’s not going to get you farther up on the list for entry into heaven. What it is going to do is wear you down, take your time away from the things in your life that matter most and put you in a position of internal conflict. You’re respecting everyone and everything else, but yourself. One thing that does matter the most.

It’s time to stop the running and deal with your emotions. Whither it’s a sense of loss, some delusion that you’re not good enough or that you don’t deserve the permanent or sustained happiness you seek. It’s time to stop the self negative talk and self loathing. Stop putting yourself down or saying “I don’t see why I can’t, others can”. The self punishment isn’t going to help you. Stop it!

As long as you’re trying to sell one thing, but internally degrading the product, you’ll continue the vicious cycle of energy that fails to move forward.

Stop trying to improve your value or self-worth by sacrifice. Others can see exactly what you’re doing and some have tried to tell you.  Love yourself, hold respect for yourself, believe in yourself and you will find your self-worth is already pretty high on the mark. You are worth the effort. You’re beautiful, smart, capable and you have the inner strength to overcome and attain your dreams.

YOU CAN! You are worth the effort. You will grab the brass ring. You are loved! You deserve a supportive and caring relationship. You are entitled to the happiness you seek! You can do this!! You are the perfect implementation of Divine Creation for this expression of your life! You are part of the greater Divinity of the Universe and now is the time for you to rise up and believe it!

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.