Don’t get so distracted looking through the window that your emotions over flow. If you want to be noticed, go inside and be part of the party. Your self-doubt is keeping you at bay from others, simply because your fears of the past have moved to the surface. And there’s no reason for it. Stop hiding! You might actually have some fun!
The lack of confidence, self-deprecation, and “What’s wrong with me” attitude is the problem. You think everyone is ignoring you, when the problem is, you’re pushing everyone away. There are many who love you and want you to be part of their lives. Stop closing the door in their face.
Several have reached out to, even those you don’t even know in real life. So why are you ignoring the attention? Why are you trying to play the victim, when you’re the one who is causing the self segregation.
Either you’ll come across as aloof and conceited or as a drama queen who’s looking for attention. Neither one is what you really want, so stop playing the game and stand up. The recent events hasn’t changed your worth or value. It’s only changed your emotional view of yourself that’s coming from a state of fear and depression.
Only YOU can change your attitude. Everything happens for a reason in the right time and space. There’s a reason you’ve kicked yourself out. You can no longer run away and replace what’s missing in your life with work and full plate. Now you must take the time to sit still, contemplate and open up to become part of the world you want to be in.
Believe in yourself. You really have more value in life, work and love than you give yourself credit for. You’ve managed to reach the pinnacle of success in work and life. Now stop letting the past overshadow your connections to love. You do deserve better than that from yourself.
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