Crying over spilt milk isn’t going to refill your cup. What’s gone is in the past and didn’t need to be in your life at this time anyway. Be thankful for you still have enough left to germinate the seeds of growth and survive. Stop looking back or you might miss what’s in front of you!! Let it go! And clear the way for new and better things to come.
When you don’t heed the warnings, the Divine Universe has a way of pushing you to where you need to be. Take stock of what you do have. Everything has it’s purpose in your life. And sometimes that purpose gets fulfilled and teaches you what needs to be learned. But it’s up to you to accept the lesson, take it in, learn it and move on.
Taking the next step can be the hardest thing to do. But sometimes that’s exactly what we need to do to leave the past behind. Moving forward maybe the only way to find what we really want. Perhaps the lesson is telling you to slow down and to stop running away. Sometimes the thing we want most, can only be found when we stand still.
Don’t pine away for something that wasn’t meant to be long term in the first place. Focus on what you have to work with and build your shed for the next project, garden, job, relationship or whatever. It’s up to you to rise above and move forward. Others cannot do that for you.
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