It’s in your nature to be up all night. It’s where your inspiration, imagination and problem solving is at its peak. Stop being scared of being in your element. Stop feeling lonely and out of synch. Use the night to search within, meditate, write, draw, do something that expresses yourself. You may discover who you are and what you really need at this time in your life.
Many people dread being home as the sun sets behind the Earth. Even those who are home all day by themselves feel something different about the night. The world becomes quiet and they feel sad, alone and cut off.
I know people who sleep with the TV on at night because they’re afraid to be in the dark. But it doesn’t have to be this way. You’re not alone and you’ve been given this time to do what you want to do and maybe even need to do.
Even those people who have someone else in the house, but segregate themselves to their own TV room or their own bedroom can feel lost and alone in a sea of people. But remember, being alone is YOUR choice! You can change that decision and change your life.
Follow your instincts, and yes this time allow your “I should be doing this” thoughts help give you direction. Use your time to work on you. Take time to go within and be honest with yourself about who you are and who you want to become. If you don’t like something about yourself or your life now is the time to work on it. Don’t sit there wallowing in self-pity and creating an atmosphere of self loathing and sorrow.
If you don’t care about yourself first, no one else is going to see you worthy of care either. Everyone in the world is relevant. Everyone in the world has value and something to offer. You can’t say that to other people and then not apply those words to yourself. It’s time you got up and did something about how you feel and what you see in the mirror.
Only you can change you and what you see in your own reflection. By changing yourself you force others to change they way they relate and react to you. But you may find you don’t need them to give you value or worth in the first place. Because you have learned to love yourself. Change your life today. Look in the mirror at yourself and say ..out loud “You’re beautiful and I love you. Now let’s get gorgeous and do something about that”.
Additional Reading –
- You Can Only Change Yourself
- Believe In You – Pep Talks To Help You Be Inspired
- Believe In Yourself – Learn To Handle The Pressure
- 10 Commandments To Live By – Keeping Your Perspectives Positive
- The Seven Point Guide to Self Fulfillment – Wisdom From the Dalai Lama | From a Pagan perspective
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