Don’t look to others for your happiness, you won’t find it there. Even when the world is trying to turn things upside down, you are responsible for your own feelings. Look within yourself for the spark of laughter, creativity to manifest your dreams and inspiration to build your own abundance. It’s up to you to care for you, not someone else.
Partnerships are a two way street of respect. But you’re not an island dependent upon those around you for your happiness. You decide what your emotions are and how you will react to the events around you. No matter what the situation, no one can control that aspect of you.
Take accountability for how you feel and stop blaming others for the situations you’re in. If you don’t like it, change it. If you feel stunted, then use your own imagination to create. You must be the one who does the work to make it happen, no one else can do it for you.
Instead of letting the little things make you angry, learn to ignore them or accept them for what they are (they’re not important). You aren’t perfect, so why do you keep holding others up to standards that even you can’t meet?
Take time today to calm down, go within and push the reset button. You’re the only one who can truly make a big difference in your life. Stop letting the stress and anxiety turn you into someone you don’t want to be or don’t like to be around. It’s the angst that’s creating the environment you’re in. So find a way to relax so you can deal with what needs to be done, take care of what needs to be addressed and make a real difference in your life to turn things around.
Clear your mind and your body of the anxiety that has you blaming everyone and everything else for your own dilemma. Make sure what you want is really what you need, and if it is, make the changes necessary to guide your future where it needs to be. Everyone has the ability to make sacrifices and change. Get off your butt and do it, and take responsibility for your own life!
Try The 5 Minute Clearing & Healing Meditation – A Spiritual Approach to hitting the reset button.
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