It’s not a day to be cute and coy. That sheepish and childish character will not win friends, or gain the attention of the person you want to notice you. Maturity with a sense of fun and adventure will attract the people you want to have around you. You can be smart, confident and act like an adult and still be someone who knows how to enjoy the moment and have fun. Don’t change who you are so that someone else can feel good about themselves. That never works out in the end!
Acting childish can cost you much more prosperity and abundance than you can spare right now. It can also impact your chances to improve those things in the future for your own stability as well. Now is not the time to react to situations like a child. Nor will those types of actions gain the favor of others whose attentions you’re trying to attain.
No matter what your age, as an adult you should have a sense of responsibility, accountability and maturity about you. That doesn’t mean you have to be a stuffed shirt and can’t laugh or have a good time. But remember there are extremes to everything, even to having fun. Too much of anything is rarely good. And sometimes, timing really IS everything!
Being coquettish is not an attribute that holds its appeal for very long. Confidence and being self-assured are attractive traits for an adult. They indicate that you can get through anything and be counted on when needed. There’s nothing worse than a 40+man who still acts like he’s invincible with a high school humor. Or a woman who still wants to spread the latest gossip about the next door neighbor or act naive and gullible about everyday life.
If you have to change your character in order to attract someone as a friend, partner, teammate or patron, then they’re not worth your time. Those close to you deserve more respect from you than that. They deserve to know the real you, the person who has ideas and inspiration, who will be there when things get tough and can face the challenges of everyday life.
If you spend your time trying to be cute and coy, you will undermine your current efforts and future plans. There’s a time to play and allow the child within to come out. Be cautious that you don’t allow that pendulum to swing too far and ruin your chances of being noticed and admired. Protect your reputation, watch over it with a long-term perspective. Those around you, will be impressed with your balanced nature and will want to help you, work with you, be with you and bring abundance of all kinds to your path.
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