Keep your mouth shut today! You’re only hearing half the story, if that. You’re being used and manipulated in an unjust cause. Don’t get in the middle of situations and you’ll walk through the day with ease. Allow your self to be pushed toward one side of the battlefield over the other and you’ll be the one who gets carried off with the wounded. Control your temper, your assumptions and your words! They all have energy that you can’t take back once they have been released.
Someone near you has been trying to manipulate and scheme for several months now. Their previous attempts have not worked out in their favor as yet, but they are still working on undermining others for their own gains. Be cautious about your reactions to what you’re told and make sure you’re getting the entire story!
Better yet, try not to get involved at all. It might be none of your business and your part in their war is to be a pawn who can be sacrificed with ease. Don’t let “friends” try to guilt you into being on their side. Loyalty runs both ways. True friends don’t put others in danger for their petty arguments or underhanded schemes. Ask yourself, if this goes wrong, will they be there for you? The answer is probably going to be a resounding “No”.
But for those situations that might affect you personally, take time to research what you’re being told. Especially if your told “don’t say anything to so and so” and that’s the person who’s heading up the other side of the fight. Whither it’s business, pleasure or family; you are responsible for your own actions and the consequences you take. Make sure you know exactly what actions are needed to protect yourself and your future! Don’t expect to put that blame on someone else’s shoulders when things go wrong. You have a choice, make sure you take the right choice for YOU!
Don’t be afraid to confront the offending foe face to face. Skip the back talk, the hushed whispers and especially the gossip. If you want the real answer, go to the source and find out what’s really going on face to face! Even if it’s to ask, if this is something you should be concerned about or involved with. Be calm, non-threatening and simply share “I was told…blahblah. Is this true and is it something I need to be involved with?” Don’t be surprised if you’re told it’s none of your business. That should be a clear indication that you don’t need to be involved. Say so and walk away without hurt feelings or judgements.
Something might really be going on, but it might have absolutely nothing to do with you. You may want to think about giving up your intel for free. If you don’t know everything that’s going on, you could be sacrificing the innocent unwittingly. Focus on YOU and discover your place in the battle plans. Don’t let either side get you involved in a fight that isn’t yours or you wouldn’t otherwise participate in. Even if you have something to gain, you’ll regret how you got it later on.
Once you have the facts you need, make sure you make it known that you’re walking off the battlefield and others are not to engage you further. You will not play this game or be used in this fight. You will defend your borders if necessary, but your focus is on your own preservation! If you lose friendships, they weren’t friends worth having in the first place.
Walk away and stop anyone from trying to engage you in this silliness. You have much more important things to focus on. You have a bigger plan that needs your time, energy and action. So keep your insights and advice to yourself, keep your head down and do what you need to do for your path forward. Protect your own integrity and you protect your reputation overall with everyone. A sign of strength and self-confidence can go a long way to gaining friends and influencing others.
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