Determination will see you through! Stay focused and don’t let the selfishness of others distract you. If they really cared, they would give you the space and time to work on your projects. Or they would offer to help so they could spend time with you. You rule your day as the sovereign of your life. You know what needs to be done and how to accomplish it. Keep your resolve and push through the intense distractions. You’ll be glad you did and you might even be surprised at what you accomplish by sunset.
You might have to let go of those who aren’t supportive or encouraging to you. As much as you care about them, they’re lack of reassurance should be a big red flag about their overall character. Those that only think about what they want and don’t think through the consequences of their actions, will not be there for you when things go bad. They’re reckless, self centered view won’t stand up for you when you need them the most. Pay attention and see how much you’re working to make your way in the world; but they’re looking for someone to take from and get a free ride through life.
You’ve worked too hard to this point to lose it all because you gave into their short sighted temptations. Don’t destroy everything you’ve worked so hard to create and/or change! The rewards are near and you’ve already started seeing some of the benefits. You’re confidence has increased, your drive and ambition is working hard to keep you inspired. Do you really want to throw all that away? Really? Is this one hour or half a day of fun and frivolity really worth the destruction of the rest of your life?
Those who cross our path for a brief time bring lessons and reminders to our day about what we’ve come to work on. We can try to be humble and compassionate to their limited thinking, but in the end, they must learn their own lessons. As you must learn yours. Take time to explain how their actions are not in your best interest. That the hour of fun they want to have, can destroy the days and months of effort you’ve put into your work. Ask them to be part of your plans and help you. But make sure you have a task for them to do. If they say no, then you must harden your heart and let them know you can’t spend time with them right now. In this moment, you must focus on what YOU NEED and that’s working on your future.
Walking away can be the hardest thing someone can do. But remember, if you choose to fall to their whims, you’re the one making the choice to follow instead of lead. You decided if their attempts to manipulate you are worth what you might lose. You’re the one who lives through the consequences of your actions. Will they be there then? Will they be the one feeling the pain and sorrow for allowing this fleeting moment to change everything? Or will they be walking away because things around you simply got too tough to deal with?
Stay focused. Pay attention to your goals and your responsibilities. Keep your eyes on the end game and work through the pleas to come play today. There’s a time for work and a time for relaxing, but right now your resolve must be on your work. Plan time for taking it easy tonight, after the sun sets. Sit by the fire and share stories. Hold hands and enjoy some quality time with those you love. You’ll be glad you did. And you’ll feel better about your day and what you’ve accomplished too.
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