There’s always going to be someone who doesn’t appreciate what you’ve done or have accomplished. Don’t let the one voice of “you could have done better” overshadow all those that are congratulating you and happy about your achievements. You deserve to celebrate and hold your successes high. Pat yourself on the back and smile!!
There’s always going to be someone in your corner who doesn’t think you’re doing enough. For some reason they have a hard time saying even one kind thing about the work you’ve put in and changes you’ve made. They are the one person you need to ignore. You can’t change them, you can’t help them see the lessons they have to learn. So try to make sure you put their words out of your head!
No matter how many people congratulate us, or tell us we’ve done a great job, or they’re happy we’ve reached the success that has claimed so much work from us; there’s always that one person whose negative comment sticks in our head. It’s time you take control of your thoughts and erase those recordings from your brain!
Their jealousy comes from within their being and their view of themselves. It’s not their success, so you don’t deserve it either. You can feel sorry for them and try to be compassionate, but not if it takes away from your moment of celebration. Remind them you worked hard for this, if you care to. Remind them it’s not your path they’re walking and you don’t live up to their standards. Be confident in yourself, approve of yourself and you will win the day and maintain the joy for your good deeds and hard work.
Hold up the glass and give yourself a toast! Smile through the day because you reached a goal you set for yourself. No matter how small or how big it may be; celebrate your achievements!
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