Don’t hide your passion so much that no one knows what you’re really working toward. You won’t get any support if you’re expecting others to simply know by osmosis what you want in life. Don’t be afraid to be who you are and allow your magik to come out and grow. It’s ok to be an inspiration to others.
Wallowing in self-pity isn’t the answer to your problem. You’re expecting others to read your mind and simply know what you want or need. It doesn’t work that way. Not even in the best relationships can people read each others minds. You can’t read theirs, don’t expect them to read yours.
And no, leaving hints aren’t going to get it done either. Not everyone is good at picking up on the subtle comments about what you like or wish you could do. Not in this day and age where every moment of someone’s time includes their face in a digital device. So don’t assume the one you care about is paying full-time and attention to you. You’re not paying attention to them, so what do you expect?
If you want others to be part of your dream or goal then simply ask them to be. It’s not hard. It’s called communication. Don’t text, don’t write a blog post or a post on your FB page, or whatever. Actually look them in the eye and ask for some of their time. Turn off the phone or tablet or both and talk.
If you want others to be part of your life, you’re going to have to practice what you preach and give them some of your time without your nose in your phone. Tell them about your goals, what you’ve done so far and what you have left to do. Tell them what you need help with and when. Ask them to give you feedback or make suggestions for how to improve your plan.
When you treat others the way you want to be treated, that’s what you’ll get back in return. So if you want someone to talk with you, not at you then show them the respect you desire to have. Make sure you’re showing interest in their dreams and their passion. Life is about balance. Too much of you and not enough of them will leave you alone when they find someone who will compromise and share the road.
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