Don’t let your temper drown you in a sea of anger. Burning bridges is not a good idea today. Hold your tongue and focus on your passion to keep things moving forward. Someone maybe trying to push your buttons. Don’t let them. They have ulterior motives and need you to lose control. Deep breath, stay calm and you’ll get through the day in one piece without being scorched.
Someone is going out of their way to force you into a confrontation. It’s the only way they can win their game. Don’t let them manipulate your emotions with accusations or innuendo. You’ll be giving your adversary exactly what they want.
The only way others can win their game, is if you allow their words to inflame your emotions. Be in control of your own destiny and rise above their pettiness. They’re not in the right here and you know that. So why listen to their rhetoric when they can’t prove anything in the first place?
They need you to blow up and become irrational. They need others to see how “out of control” you really are so their story will appear to hold water. Don’t give them the satisfaction and remain calm and secure in your own space. Doing so will show their true colors and the doubts will squarely rest on their shoulders. Continue reading