To become one with another being, you must first become one within yourself. No one else can “make” you happy, or make you feel excited or in-love. Those are the emotions you are responsible for and govern on your own. Relationships are a dime a dozen, but if you want that one in a million special love affair, you must first look within and find the love of self that unites your Mind, Body and Spirit. When you love yourself for who and what you are, others will love you too and want to set off fireworks each and every moment they’re with you.
When you are critical of yourself, you quickly find fault in others. When you can’t accept yourself for who and what you are, you won’t give that consideration to others. When even you don’t love yourself, it’s hard for others to see what’s within you to love.
Stop being your own worst enemy and start looking at yourself with Divine eyes. Criticism of self is nothing more than applying the fear of the world around you on the image you see in the mirror. All that negative self talk you do, comes from the many recordings you have made over the years from the unhappiness others. They weren’t or aren’t happy; so they don’t want you to be happy. Stop giving away the control over your own emotions to those who live in darkness, selfishness and fear.
But you must also stop pushing that same criticism from your negative self talk out onto the shoulders of those around you. They don’t deserve it any more than you do. No one in this world is perfect, not even you! And no one in this world deserves to carry the baggage of anyone else. When you take time to look within and accept who you are, you change the negative fear into loving courage. You empower yourself to make changes you desire and shine with loving light from the inside out.
Whither you’re single, in a relationship or bouncing from one relationship to another; the true measure of love is understanding yourself and loving who you are. If you don’t like an aspect of yourself, then work to change it. No one can change you, but you. And in changing yourself, you are causing others to change how they respond to you. Because when you’re not doing the same things and repeating the patterns, they can’t react to you with the same responses and repeating patterns.
Today, align your energies with the Divine force in your life and give yourself a hug. Celebrate who you are through a conscious effort to connect Mind, Body and Spirit as one. Buy yourself a rose, or an ice-cream cone. Start the next moment with a look in the mirror (or take a selfie and look at your own image), then tell yourself “I love you and you’re worth the effort!”. Change your view of self and love who you are. Let your Divine light glow for the rest of the world to see what a beautiful soul you really are.
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- The Seven Point Guide to Self Fulfillment – Wisdom From the Dalai Lama | From a Pagan perspective
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