Sometimes it’s better to keep your mouth shut about your troubles, than to spread the news around. You could be allowing others to see your weaknesses, and try to take advantage of your situation. Confide only in those who have proven they can be trusted with the secrecy and have your best interests at heart. Don’t let the competition get an upper hand by knowing what buttons to push, or what information to twist that creates the loss of opportunities for you. Be successful by acting as if you already are.
Many people like to talk things out when things happen in their lives. It’s not an attempt to gain sympathy or attention. Though some people are drama queens/kings who can’t live without the attention. But for some it’s a therapeutic approach to “getting it out” and releasing the energy of hurt, frustration and anger.
It’s important to be cautious about who you talk to and what you share about your life in these situations. Don’t feel tied down and restricted. Don’t feel captured, imprisoned or limited. Simply be cautious about what you say, who you say it too and protect your future options from the past mistakes and injustice you’ve faced.
Someone who works at this place, with that person, whose spouse works where you work and knows your new boss may not be the right person to share your frustrations with. Especially if they’re a known gossip.
True friends know how to keep secrets and know what can and cannot be shared about your life. They keep your best interests in the forefront of their thoughts, because they don’t want to make things worse or because they’re trying to look out for you. Everyone needs to let off steam and talk it out. But you want to do that with someone who will help you turn the negative around and see the positives in the tough situations.
We move in and out of situations all the time because there’s something there we’re supposed to learn. Or maybe there was someone there we were supposed to meet. Something we’ve gained from the experience that will aid us on the path toward our life’s mission. Don’t feel rejected by the limitations others have set upon you. That’s simply their excuse and it really isn’t relevant to you anyway. So look at what you learned within the time you were in this situation. What did this place or this person provide to you, that you will be able to take away and use on your own grand plans?
Those who are successful always look at situations that don’t work out as learning experiences. They take what they can from the event and make sure they don’t make the same mistakes next time, or they apply what they learned to the next round to achieve their goals. Put the positive spin on your situations and see it as your next step UP the ladder. You will be successful, because you already are!
Believe In Yourself – The 10 Rules For Mental Clarity To Succeed
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