Stop looking back, unless you’re trying to decide what else to cut out of your life. Dwelling on the past hurts only keeps you and in their grip of pain. It negates all that you have learned, changed and improved. It takes you back to the beginning and forces you to relive all the agony and anger. Stop giving control to those past events that are causing you to be jaded. You say you’ve let them go, so do it. Release their energy from altering your perspectives and open up to a brand new, happier and brighter future.
Yes there are stages of letting go, but take a look at how long you’ve been throwing daggers at the past. All those “cute” social media shares you’ve been doing, are keeping your energy, mind and heart rood deeply to those events you should have let go of by now. Stop replaying the record of anger and judgement. You’re only doing more harm to yourself than the one you’re trying to get back at.
Revenge to “get back” at someone is a wasted endeavor. The one who hurt you isn’t going to “get the message”. They’re not going to read your tweet, or see your post and come crawling to you for forgiveness. They’re not going to say I’m sorry and tell you they were wrong or you were right. All they’re going to do is look at the whole of your messages and say “boy am I glad I got away from that nut case”. Continue reading