Be the Star of your own life and put the spotlight on you. While you maybe used to putting others first and thinking of what everyone else wants, today is your day to shine. Be a little selfish and do what you feel you want to do to celebrate and please yourself. Forget about sacrificing for everyone else and get that special present you want for under the tree or in the stocking or where ever you share your gifts for the holiday season. Remember, you are part of your family too and even you deserve a special holiday package to open!
Sometimes it’s ok to be the center of your attention, after all aren’t you the most important character in play that is your life? If you don’t think you are, how are others going to see you as an important part of their life?
We are often taught that being selfless and giving to take care of others is the proper way to live life. Sacrifice and putting someone else first is the important actions of those who are humble and kind. Hmmm, well not if doing all that is at the expense of yourself. Too much of anything, even giving of yourself, isn’t good for you. Even if that things is kindness and sacrifice.
Everything in life is about balance, and that includes how you perceive and treat yourself. It’s your actions of ego and humility rolled into one. Balance your giving compassion with care for yourself. If you give more than you keep, you’ll have nothing left to share with those you care about. Sometimes the best thing we can do for someone we care about is say “No, I’ve done enough for you and I can’t give more than I have. I have to take care of me too”.
Sometimes it’s not about how much you’ve done for others, or how much others have taken from you through guilt or a sense of duty. But rather how much you care about yourself. Love yourself and you will have plenty of love to share with others. Be compassionate with yourself and you will have a magnum of compassion for others. Take care of yourself and you will have enough energy to care for others in need. Dote on yourself, and others will want to dote on you too. And then you might even have some extra doting to share with those you care for.
The saying “What you put out comes back 3-fold, or 9-fold, or 10-fold” reminds you that when you live in balance, you get back as much as you put out, but it comes back as a reward to Mind, Body and Spirit. The multiplication of that reward is for you, so don’t you think you deserve to accept that gift from the Divine in your life? Are you really going to pass up a gift that’s being returned to you from that Divine force in your life? Aren’t you worth the reward?
Of course you are! So stop feeling guilty about having the chance to take the reward and do something nice for yourself. Whether it’s a material gift, an adventure, an event or the start of an idea that can build into a special dream come true, you deserve the gift you give yourself. Have a Happy Holiday Season and be kind to yourself this year. You’ve earned it!! You really have.
- The Law of Accountability – The 3 Fold, 9 Fold or 10 Fold Law of Return
- Living In Balance – The Balance Of Life and Spirit
- As Above, So Below – The Importance of Balance
A Little Numerological Insight:
Another number caught my attention when I posted this. This is the 1,221st post on Reflections. Now how can you see 1221 and not see a message of balance in that number? Since Friday’s card usually carries a message for the entire weekend, and this weekend begins our 12 Days of Yule, I thought a look behind the number would be appropriate. So here we go.
If you’ve seen my number insights before you know that Mathematics is the only language shared by all humans regardless of culture, religion, or gender. Numerology is the study of the divine or mystical relationship between a count or measurement and life. It has many systems and traditions and beliefs. My practice of numerology is Shamanistic Numerology that’s based on Celtic and North American Shamanistic teachings. It’s not the only method, the best method or the true method. It’s simply one of many methods and one that resonates most with me and my personal perspectives of the Divine and the world we live in.
From a Shamanistic Numerology standpoint, today’s number is a Sub-Prime number and as a numerical number it represents the spiritual aspect of this message.
— For looking at a specific date/day/number
A quick review; Prime numbers are those numbers that are specific to you, your birthday, social security or other numbers that will stick with you throughout your lifetime. Sub-Prime numbers are numbers associated with you that change over time. Your phone number, an employee number, drivers license number and other things like that. A date falls into the category of Sub-Prime, because it only comes around once and quickly changes to the next day in the scheme of your lifetime.
There are two ways to look at the date, through the numerical view 07/14/2014 would be the official way to view the date. And the alphanumeric view July 14, 2014. The numerical number represents the spiritual aspect of the day. And the alphanumerical version represents the aspects of physical life.
|1221||1 + 2 + 2 + 1||6|
Six / 6
The number of family or community, coming together in harmony, working together and being in balance together as a whole.
- This number is associated with Venus.
- This number is associated with the Alder Tree.
- This number is associated with the Red Hawk.
- It represents Divine Harmony.
- Positive Direction: This is the number of family, compassion, caring, diplomacy and children. Those with 6 in their life tend to be great parents, supportive and respectful to family and friends. They honor their elders and enjoy their children.
- Negative Direction: Six can also be the number of indifference and argument. It can exhibit dissatisfaction through defiance and disrespect. It can fall into moments of being controlling in order to “make” things happen their way. Which never lasts for the long term.
Well if that doesn’t fit today’s Tarot message I don’t know what does.
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