Keep your head down and nurture the blossoms in your garden. Sometimes you must ignore the pain from the little hurts in order to grow the solutions to the underlying issues. Choose your decorations carefully. Make sure what you select around your garden supports its growth and doesn’t impede its progress.
Learn to live with the pain and stop using it as an excuse to not move or not get things done. Trying to self medicate it away will only make things worse in the long run too. Trying to pretend it’s not there can cause things to get worse. You must face the issues that are in the way, but they cannot stop you from working on the solutions that reside beneath the surface either.
Today focus what you can do not only for the short term, but the long term resolutions as well. If that means making a doctor appointment, getting your emotions under control, stop complaining about everything that’s wrong and focus on what is right, then do it. Whatever it is, stop wallowing in the self pity and get fixing the problem!
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