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Today’s Tarot Meditation Drawing: Four of Pentacles

4 of Pentacles
Watch your harvest today. Someone is trying to get something for nothing and steal from behind your back. Don’t sign any contracts, make any deals or be pressured into any sales pitch. Learn to say No and not feel guilty about it. You’ve worked hard this season! Don’t let someone else try to take from you all that you have gained so far. If you can’t say “No” make sure you read EVERYTHING and are completely clear about what you’re signing. The fine print will make a really big difference!

Additional Insight:

If you feel pressured to make a deal, then simply say “No thank you” and walk away or hang up the phone. Something sneaky is going on behind your back and you could be entering into an unfair deal or situation. It’s ok to say “No”, no matter who’s doing the asking.

You have no reason to feel guilty about looking after your own harvest. If others didn’t prepare for the coming winter season, that’s not your fault. You can’t feed everyone when you only have enough for you and yours in the first place.

If you can’t say “No”, then try saying “I need to think about this some more. I’ll think about it over the weekend.” or what about “I’ll take the contract home and read it through over the weekend”. If you’re pressured into signing today, it’s best to say No instead of risking a hidden or misleading clause that gets you in deeper than you ever expected. This is especially true for contracts that lock you into something for several years or decades. So be extra careful on closings, insurance scams or mortgage refi’s and modifications. You can always take a contract to a lawyer and bring it back to the bank or closing officer later today. Only you can protect you!

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Today’s Tarot Meditation Drawing: Eight of Wands – Inverted

Eight of Wands: Inverted

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

You may feel as though issues are raining down on you today, but don’t fret. They’re not about you. Others are taking out their frustrations and trying to dump them in your lap to handle. Don’t allow them too. It’s their mess, they made the choices and they must live with the consequences of those decisions. Learn to say ‘No’ and you’ll be fine.

Additional Insight:

Others will try to blame you and insist this wouldn’t have happened had you done this or that. Don’t let them shift the buck to you for the bad decisions they made. They could have consulted you first; and they choose not to. The onus is on them, not you. So don’t let them bully you into dealing with the aftermath. It was their call, make them handle the consequences of their choice. Others involved will stand behind you. That maybe a surprise, but you’ll be amazed at how they react to the blame game.

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