A Cheetah can’t change its spots to be something you want it to be. You cannot learn lessons for others, all you can do is support who they are now. Manipulation of any kind will only push them away and you’ll lose them forever. Be cautious of the judgements you make today. The consequences could be disastrous.
Everyone is searching for something. Everyone has baggage that needs to be healed. You’re not the only one suffering right now, so don’t expect others to live up to your expectations. You’re only setting them up to fail and creating disappointment around yourself.
Be supportive by showing compassion and try talking about the mistakes from your own life. Use yourself as an example, but stay away from the mistakes you think you see in others. What you might see as an error in judgement, could be that persons willingness to take a brave chance to achieve their dream. It may not be your dream, but then again, it’s not your life either. Stop trying to live it for them. Continue reading