It’s ok to show off your feathers like a peacock once in a while. Who else is going to be proud of your accomplishments if not you? There’s a difference between flaunting your achievement and simply being proud of yourself. You worked hard, you reached for this short-term goal and it’s ok to be happy about it. Celebrate…buy yourself an icecream cone or an arrangement of flowers!

Additional Insight:

It isn’t very often in our life that we achieve something we set our mind to. Whither it’s pass the class that was so challenging, getting on the Deans List, acquiring your degree, being approved for a loan, getting a new car or simply getting all the leaves cleaned up from your yard from the colorful falling leaves. You worked hard at the task and it’s worth patting yourself on the back for getting it done.

Leaving the celebration to the big things means you’re waiting a long time in between moments to pat yourself on the back. Life really is too short for that. Each little accomplishment re-energizes your being and gives a boost to both your psyche and your soul. Celebrate them. Don’t take them for granted.

Allow the little achievements to give you strength to go on to the next goal. Each little step can quickly become a mile forward. Before you know it, you’ve attained a big dream and set new goals to reach for and celebrate. Believe in yourself, by celebrating your accomplishments and letting yourself say “I DID IT”!

“You should set [at least one] goal beyond your reach so you always have something to live for.” ~ Ted Turner

“When you achieve a goal of any kind, let it be your motivation to set a new and bigger goal to reach for.” ~ Springwolf.

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

What are you worried about? You have what you absolutely need in this time and space. If you continue to dwell on what you don’t have, you’ll miss the moments that allow you to enjoy the bounty of your own home. Share with those you care for the most. Laugh and giggle a little. Stop worrying about all the negativity outside your door and revel in the love you have inside the room.

Additional Insight:

There are many forms of abundance. Abundance of the harvest, of finances, of love and of health are the ones people focus on the most. But when we can focus on and provide love and compassion to those around us, we allow that energy to grow and expand to the areas in our life that maybe lacking and turn their hardships around to greater abundance.

“What you put out, you will receive” is not only speaking of that specific emotion or event at that moment in time. Whatever “it” is, affects everything in your life from top to bottom. The snide comment you made to your acquaintance on Facebook will impact your wallet. The negative rumor you shared about that woman picking up her kids from school impacts your health. The angry thoughts you hold onto to about your ex, or someone who hurt your heart will impact your other relationships, even those you don’t even know about. 

Everything you do, think, or say impacts all areas of your life. Don’t take things for granted. Don’t focus on the negative. Don’t allow your impatience or lack of compassion for others cause more harm to them or yourself. All you will end up doing is allowing the snowball that’s rolling downhill out of control to get larger and be harder to stop from crashing at the bottom. The bigger the snowball, the larger the damage it will cause.

Most of the time, if not all the time, life is about perspective. Allow your heart to find the good in all situations and you’ll be able to make a snowman out of that snowball. When you do, you won’t need a magik hat to make it come alive. The fun, companionship, friendship, kindness, laughter and joy will overflow in your baskets and bring peace to your heart. You’ll be able to share that energy with anyone you meet and perhaps touch their heart with kindness that makes a difference in their day or their life.

In today’s society people are great about sharing inspirational images on social media. The hard part is putting some of those messages into practice in your own life. Walking Your Talk © will help you to increase the abundance of all areas of your life, right when you need it the most. Then you may discover what you want is ready to come along at the right time and place to make everything work out the way you’ve dreamed it could.

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

You control how fast, how far, and where the wheel stops or if it stops at all. So why do you keep giving that control over to someone else. Take back the command over your own journey. Let the rain fall down all around you and enjoy the life you want to live. Stop looking at the wheel as lacking fun, pleasure or grace. Even under the clouds, you can create excitement and joy in your day. It’s not up to someone else to make you happy. You are quite capable of doing that all by yourself!  ~ Listen for today: Enya “Wild Child”

Additional Insight:

You don’t have to have a partner or friend to go out on an adventure and have fun. If you learn to be your own best friend, you’re always with someone who likes you and wants to be with you. You create your own happiness within yourself and take control over where you life leads.

Be responsible for your own happiness and you will always know laughter and excitement. No matter what the day or what the weather, you are directing the expedition that is your life. Look within and find the person who laughs at your own jokes, who finds the humor in the things that make you laugh and who wants to take the journey that you find exciting.

When you learn to be your own best friend, you remove the fear of looking within and seeing yourself for what you are. You can discover that you are the perfect physical embodiment of the Divine in this time and space for the life plan that you yourself have designed and created. Don’t be afraid of it. Embrace it and walk through the day with a joyous heart and endearing smile. Even if you’re the only one who will notice and acknowledge it.

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/Skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

If you’re going to stand on your head for someone else, make sure you’re getting what you need out of the situation. No matter what the acquaintanceship is, all relationships are a two way street. Meeting halfway is necessary to maintain respect and consideration. If you’re always going the extra mile, it may not be the relationship for you. Try to work it out and make your concerns clear. But if nothing changes, it maybe time to move on and find something that IS good for you.

Additional Insight:

Relationships of any kind take work from both sides to make them successful and beneficial for everyone involved.

Whither it be at school, at work, between friends, or a close relationship between couples, all relationships take work to maintain. If you are constantly doing all the work and feel as though you’re the one who is being asked to change in order to accommodate the other; it’s not a healthy relationship.

But don’t simply give up and walk away with someone else holding the bag. Talk about it first. Try to communicate how you feel. Be respectful, show concern without anger or hurt feelings. Never start the conversation with “You made me….”. No one can make you think or feel anything unless YOU allow them too. Take ownership of your emotions. When you did this, I felt like that. Continue reading →

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

Stop beating yourself up and allow your inner child to feel your compassion for self. There’s no reason to cause more wounds than what others have created. Stop feeling guilty and allow yourself to be loved. Have the fun that comes your way and accept the moments of encouragement you receive from others. Quit the negative talk!

Additional Insight:

The only person you need approval from is your higher self. Stop allowing society tell you what is right or wrong. It’s your life and you’re the one who lives it.

In today’s world there’s no such thing as “normal”. Everyone has something that is quirky about who they are and what they do behind closed doors. No one has the right to judge your life based on the life they lead. Stop feeling like an outcast and start seeing yourself as a rare precious diamond!

While it’s true that no one is an island, it’s also true that no one person is exactly the same. We’ve all gone through different experiences through out our life and we’ve been faced with different choices to make along the way. Those little things can make a world of difference down the road.

Stop listening to those who think you must stand up to their standards or act the way they do. Most of those people never had the courage to take a chance in life and missed out on some exciting adventures. No matter what your age, no matter how you feel physically, you can always try new things and fill your day with moments of true excitement!.

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

Share your knowledge and help those who seek your counsel. Not only will you find fulfillment, you’ll also make a great ally and promoter of your work. Sometimes the best way to market your skill and abilities is through word of mouth and networking. Don’t hide away in the shadows and let the community in your world pass you by.

Additional Insight:

Don’t allow your negative talk to feed your insecurities and shyness. You want to be the go to person or seen as the expert. That’s fine. But that also means standing up and standing out in the crowd.

Speak up when you have ideas to share, or know the answer to a problem. Share what you know, even if you don’t know the entire answer. Allow your dreams to inspire your confidence and allow you to stand on the stage and hit your mark.

There are times when remaining quiet is necessary and beneficial. Today isn’t one of those times. The experts share their knowledge and teach those who are interested in the same topics. You’ll have to learn begin learning which situation calls for patience and silence, and which one calls for sharing and teaching.

Be careful how you share your experiences however. The person you’re trying to teach maybe a teacher who can be offended by your efforts. An easy way around this is to remember, never start a sentence with “You..”. Rather begin with “I…”. “I think, I would, I might”; put the ownership on yourself and others will be open to your ideas and knowledge.

Remember:
“A Teacher never teaches, until the student is ready to ask the question ©”. That’s when the finesse of sharing ideas comes in handy.

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

Be careful about being the town crier. You may not have all the facts and what you do have maybe based on exaggeration and innuendo. There are always two sides to a story. Don’t make judgements on situations or people who cross your path based only one side. You could be making a big mistake and altering a course of action that may not be seen today. Even the little things make a difference.

Additional Insight:

If you want to be the “reporter” or the go to person who has the information you must first be the one who is trusted with secrets. You can tell others “No that’s not what’s going on” and still keep the confidences others bestow on you.

If you become part of the rumor mill, you maybe saying “Don’t shoot the messenger”, but sharing and altering the tale could be making things worse. You could be hurting someone who doesn’t deserve it, and putting the target on your own back. Remember Karma deals with what happens, not only what your intention might have been.

Be cautious of the judgements you make and what part you play in their story. Look at situations with honesty, integrity and above all else, with your proclaimed spiritual perspective. Rise above the hate and anger to show those around you that to be trusted and respected is more valuable and important than being first with the news; especially when that news is wrong.

Don’t be the bully! The littlest of things you do today can affect or impact something you really do care about tomorrow. Be the one who protects the underdog. It may not seem important today. But when you’re 90 and looking back over your life; it maybe one of your biggest regrets.

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

Give some attention to the little ones in your day and over the weekend. Those that depend on you, will bring you a special gift. Be gracious and share your bounty in thanks. You’ll find great blessings and an increase in abundance as a result.

Additional Insight:

Pentacles represent the essence of Finances & Debt, Possessions & Trappings, Business & Self Interests.

Blessings in these areas are not only in the physical manifestation. So don’t get hung up on money or “things”. Though for some, that might be part of what comes your way. For others this message could involve an increase in the emotional and/or spiritual self-interests.

In either case, it’s a weekend to remember what’s important in your life. As well as, who is important. Take time to acknowledge those that depend on you and look to you for support and encouragement.

It may not be a child, but rather a child like person or an older relative who you are taking care of, or visiting with at this time. Don’t get frustrated with these encounters. Rely on your spiritual compassion and be generous with your time and emotions.

The blessings you will receive in return will more than outweigh what you’re giving out. And they maybe exactly what you’ve been waiting for, and more importantly, what you need at this time!

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

Be still, take it easy and allow yourself to heal, whither it be your physical body, emotions or your  spirit. You need to take time and heal old and new wounds. If keep pushing, you will cause great harm to your physical body, emotional state, or spiritual path. Everything comes in its right time and pace. The more you try to push against that journey, the more mistakes you will make, or the more damage you’ll cause to your Mind/Body/Spirit.

Additional Insight:

Grief comes in many forms of loss. Loss of a loved one, a relationship, a family pet, a job, one’s health or independence, even one’s own freedom. And dealing with loss comes in many forms, from depression to denial or more serious reactions that affect an individual’s well being and mental health. We all have a way of dealing with every day grief, but I think everyone would agree that prolonged grief is never a good idea and can be detrimental to the wholeness of mind, body and spirit.~ Excerpt from “Dealing With Trials & Grief” by Springwolf

When we try to push things in a certain direction that we “think” we want to go, we end up making choices that take us down a bumpy road. What we want is not always what we need. Especially if we’re making choices from a place of hurt and grief. No matter how small that emotion may seem to be, we allow fear to cloud our judgement and we refuse to see what’s really happening. We set ourselves up for failure and miss opportunities that could be better for us.

In some cases it’s a sign of running away from your emotions, in some cases it’s ignoring the signs and continuing the course of action. And quite often in more than most cases, it’s a reaction made from fear.

Athletes push their physical bodies too far when they face physical pain believing if they ignore it, it will eventually go away. And often that decision causes a career ending injury.Many women jump from one relationship to another for fear of being alone and lonely, finding one bad partner after another. Many men become overcome with grief at the loss of their special partner. In a Harvard University study, sociologists found that men are 22 percent more likely to die shortly after the death of a spouse, compared with 17 percent for women.

Fear of being alone, of not being able to do what we love creates dis-ease in our physical bodies. We begin to manifest the underlying energy of fear and grief into our physical body creating ailments and sometimes serious disease.

But when we face that fear and look for the lesson that helps us overcome it, to conquer the loneliness, we allow our inner heart to heal and become open to the better choices of opportunity that we may have missed otherwise. Stop running away and allow yourself to heal, over come the fears, and find contentment in your self, your whole self, Mind, Body and Spirit.

Additional Reading For Today’s Message:
Dealing With Trials & Grief –
My motto is: “You cannot change the past. You can only change the way you allow the past to affect your present and your future.” ~ Springwolf 🐾

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Mystic Faery Tarot by Linda Ravenscroft

You’re more a like than you are different. Accept the talents and gifts you each have to share and you’ll create an unbreakable team. That may require showing each other how much you appreciate what they do and expressing your admiration of the other person to those around you. And especially to the your partner.

Additional Insight:

You don’t have to agree on everything, but don’t let the differences divide you. Extreme thoughts always have a middle ground where everyone can meet in the middle. If you allow the divide to push your partnership further apart, you’ll only feed the animosity instead of strengthen the collaboration.

Ridged thinking keeps people segregated and feeling superior to others. It leaves no room for discussion or debate. It’s often fueled by passion that allows decisions to be made out of emotional responses instead of informed thought and knowledge.

The one main purpose in life is balance. Swinging the pendulum too far to either side of the line isn’t a good thing. You are not living on an island where only your thoughts, desires and perspectives matter. The world requires common ground and shared ideas to make the best out of all situations.

This is especially true in partnerships. Be they in business, on a school project or on a personal level. One way is not the only way. Your perspective is not the only view to consider. Be open and accepting of ideas. Allow yourself to look at the same story from a different perspective. You may learn something. You may find holes in your own views that don’t hold up to your own scrutiny.

When you allow yourself to take in new information and mold your ideas and perspectives into a better and stronger view, you can contribute to any partnership and win the day with integrity and confidence.

You can order a personal reading from Spring through the Services at Spring’s Haven. We offer both in-house and email/phone/skype consultations. As a Ministerial organization, all our consultations are private and strictly confidential.

Springwolf Reflections 2013 Motto:
I attract and acquire more happiness and financial abundance than I know what to do with!

© 2013 Springwolf, D.D., Ph.D. Springwolf Reflections / Springs Haven, LLC. All Rights Reserved.