You’ve made your choice, now be resolved and be at peace with it. The path you walk isn’t for others to judge, this isn’t their life you’re leading. The fear and doubt they have about their journey, isn’t something you need to share or hold near and dear with the steps you take to move forward. It’s your life, lead it.
Many people have been living in the shadows allowing others to make decisions that impact our day-to-day life. From personal to political we’ve been comfortable in our shoes, walking the path that others have laid out for us. Maybe because we didn’t want the responsibility, or it just seemed easier that way. Maybe because we haven’t been able to believe in ourselves, that we can be the one in charge of where we’re going.
The Queen reminds us that we are the ruler over our own domain and what happens to it. You can’t sit back and let life happen to you. You must sit up, be involved and regain control over the choices and decisions you face on all levels. Fate really is what YOU make. Become the leader of your own destiny and make the judgements about your path forward to get out of the rut you’re in. It’s a new year, there’s no better time to take control than right now.
The Rulers of the kingdom aren’t perfect robots that never make a mistake. But there’s a difference in being so scared of being wrong that you never try to do anything that might be right. Life isn’t about right or wrong choices, it’s about balance living in balance in all things. Weighing the options, learning about your own self interests and what the best choices are that lay before you start the process. Life isn’t a one issue concept that provides the right path at the expense of all others. So take time and make the effort t understand exactly what’s going on. The only way to do that, is to be willing to look at things from all sides, to open up and learn about the opposite side of the coin. If you’re not willing to allow healing to take place, you’ll never follow the easy road.
Consider all the options, weight each one against the other, determine what’s best for YOU and you’ll be able to choose the journey that’s best for all involved. If you’ve done all that, there’s nothing to be worried about. You took charge, made the decision, now let go of the chains holding you back and move forward. Be content and brave with the decisions you’ve made. Everything is going to be ok. Mistakes of the past can’t be re-written. But they can be corrected for the new journey forward.
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